Can you trust him

One sign of a trustworthy character is openness. When a man easily shares information about his past or details of the events of his day, this could mean that he's an open and honest person. He probably doesn't have anything to hide so he's happy to freely share about his life.

Guys who are trying to juggle two girls or are inappropriately flirty will tend to act suspiciously when you ask them questions. A man you can trust will not try to avoid any questions you ask them.

If you have told him about your trust issues, he'll understand that when you ask questions it's because you're asking yourself "can I trust him?

If he wants to build trust between you he'll answer any questions you might have patiently and in detail. Most of us have schedules that we stick to. If we're in uni, we'll have our set timetable, if we work a job, we'll have our working hours that we follow.

A trustworthy man who has a set schedule will most often stick to his routine and you'll know where he is supposed to be at any given time. If he does happen to do something out of the ordinary, it's likely he'll share it with you because of his open nature.

A guy that doesn't want to be tied down to one person will hide his partner from his social media accounts.

His profile will not mention his relationship status and he certainly won't post any obvious pictures of you together. However, if you have a clear presence on his page, you'll know that you have found yourself a man you can trust. Even if you've been hurt in the past, assuming that all guys are the same will hurt all your relationships in the future.

If you've never had any reason to believe that he's lied to you before, then you shouldn't question his honesty and keep wondering 'can I trust him? Leading a double life and keeping secrets can be a challenging feat. A man that has something to hide will oftentimes be short-tempered and paranoid. If your guy is relaxed when he's with you and doesn't often show signs of stress, you should feel safe to trust him. You'll have to be a really good liar to look someone dead in their eyes and lie to them.

An honest man will enjoy looking into the eyes of the woman he has feelings for. I understand that most people are entirely against lying, but the truth is that no one wants to be told the truth all the time. Reality is harsh and having it softened by those who love us can be a wonderful thing. Certain types of lies are formed out of malice and deception. If he or she enjoys your company that much then he or she most definitely cares about you.

Beware those who seem to be regularly unavailable. This person wants you to trust in him or her because this person wants to be able to one day, in the near future, exchange those words. Your partner should be your partner, not your owner. This one is a big one. A lot of people are quick to talk big, but are nowhere to be found when it comes time to actually follow through.

The person you should love is the person who will never abandon you, never leave you alone and stranded, never give up on you or let you go. Being inconvenienced is nothing more than being uncomfortable. People have very neat comfort zones — leaving them is often pretty easy, but uncomfortable.

This person should be willing to sacrifice his or her comfort for yours. Maybe you've been dating for a while and he has been planning a special night for an entire week. Then the night before he tells you something else has come up or worse he stands you up. If he blows you off without giving you valid reasons, he has proven himself to be unreliable and not worth your trust.

It is also possible that his excuses are just lies. Trustworthy people do not act shady and they definitely do not cancel plans at the last minute unless something really serious has come up. If so then they immediately notify you and will explain their reasons while reassuring you. Trustworthy men usually confirm plans if they were made ahead of time. If you planned for a dinner date for the weekend days in advance, you probably get a call or message to remind and confirm that the plan is still on.

They do not leave you wondering if they have forgotten about it. Impulsive and adventurous behavior is fun when you are teenagers, but that's not what you expect from a trustworthy partner. Consistent and positive behaviors are what make a woman trust her man.

Affirmative actions and smart decisions help win her trust more easily. You should always keep an eye out for inconsistencies. The truth will always come out, even if it takes years. You often hear of people who have been in a relationship for years, breaking up when they discover something their partner had been hiding from them.

Have you noticed any inconsistencies in the stories your partner told you? Maybe you have been wanting to confront him about the deceptions, but you never had the courage to do it. You may have doubts that perhaps it is all in your mind and you may end up losing them if you question them.

Trustworthy men know who they are and what they want. They have steadfast goals. They don't keep jumping from career to career or chase different dreams each season. This does not mean they are bad or dishonest people.

But people with a lack of clarity about what they want or where they are heading are not exactly reliable partners to build a life together. This is the reason why the majority of high school romances fail. The divorce rates among those who marry young are quite high as many of them are still learning to be mature and what it means to be trustworthy.

If your partner has said he will do something or he will be by your side while you face an ordeal, he has to mean it and follow through. You surely will not want to spend your life worrying if your man is going to do what he says he will do. A trustworthy man means what he says and he says what he means. Reliability and honesty go hand in hand. Do you want to spend your life worrying about if your man is going to do what he says he will do?

Do you always want to wonder how much you can truly depend on him? Definitely not. If you feel he is lying to you over and over again, pay attention to the finer details.

It is after all very hard to keep track of a lie, especially the more complex ones. There are those who lie deliberately to hide the truth and the ones who tell you the white lies wherein they leave out bits of incriminating information. When and if you confront them about it, they put the blame back on you for not asking more about it. This means he is not only untrustworthy, but also disrespectful. Strong relationships are built by standing together and being there for each other, especially during the more difficult periods in life.

It is definitely not easy for guys to open up about their feeling, so that also depends on the depth or strength of your relationship. You may need to encourage him to talk about what's bothering him if you are able to sense something is not right.

And more importantly, you'll have lost his trust. Don't expect a guy to open up in the first few days, but if he is avoiding some topics completely, then you need to consider that a warning sign. It is the insecure people who cannot handle being teased.

If he is freaked out or goes ballistic and defensive when made fun of, it also means he cannot control his emotions and temper. Such people are not trustworthy as their insecurities will always come above everything else. A guy who seems to have everything in control is able to stay calm and collected. An insecure and paranoid man will turn on you and accuse you when he gets riled up. Even a casual joke can set him off and your relationship will be fraught with tension.

Definitely not worth it! Maybe he's cheating on someone else by being with you. If he can let his guard down around you, it means he is a confident person. He is willing to let you in and get to know him without any secrets. This a sign of maturity.

If you have been in the relationship for some time, you should be able to gauge if he trusts you or not. Trying to turn the tables back on you is a classic move of untrustworthy people.

A person's eyes can reveal emotional information. Can he look you in the eye when he talks to you? Avoiding eye contact or not being able to look you in the eye is often indicative of a shady personality. It's far easier to tell people the lies they want to hear and remain in their good books than to stand up and oppose the ones you love when you genuinely disagree with them.

A trustworthy person is honest with you even when you don't want to hear the truth. If a man is willing and bold enough to tell you when he doesn't agree with you then you know you can trust him to tell the truth. It matters how he gets across his disagreements, it should be tactful, not hurtful.

A trustworthy man stands up for what is right in life, even when no one is watching. They don't gossip or share private information about other people. He doesn't regale you with the stories or juicy details of the money problems his friends confided in him or the affair his best friend's wife is having.

No one wants strangers to know all about their dirty laundry. Let's say you go out on a first date with this cute guy, but then when you are halfway through your drinks, he winks at you and pretends to pull a hair from his drinks or food, makes a scene and then gets away with not having to pay the bill. On top of it all, he expects you to be impressed by how smart and funny he is! These guys brush off such incidents, even if it's true.

Do you think its ok to let your partner get away with lies about little the things? Unnecessary white lies are the signs of a pathological liar. They will be as polite and as diplomatic, as needed.

They don't change their personality around different people. Trustworthy people remain the same person, irrespective of who they are around. They don't change their colors to become more gossipy around gossipers. Trustworthy men do not belittle others. They speak to everyone like they are their equal. If it's a new relationship and the person is trustworthy then you'll experience a gradual increase in how comfortable you feel around him. If he is not trustworthy, you will be left with a growing sense of unease and mistrust.

The longer that you remain in a relationship, the more your level of comfort or unease around him, the more you know whether he is worth your trust and love. The more bonded you become to the man in your life, the more it is going to hurt if you end up with a broken heart. So it is critical that you are able to figure out early on whether the person is trustworthy or not.

Resources: success. By Anju Published May 08, Share Share Tweet Email Comment. Related Topics Love.