Why mystery is attractive

What I mean is don't always do the same thing to her. For instance, if you always appear in front of her whenever she calls you or needs you, you'll be very predictable. She'll expect you appear every time she calls you. This is not good. There's a myth that men believe they must always be around her to give her a sense of security and safety.

However, this is wrong. Always being around her will make yourself seem like a clingy guy, this is very unattractive. If you always be nice to her, she will expect that you will not angry at her even if she did something wrong. See also: why being nice to her doesn't work. When you're being very predictable, your mysterious is dead completely. According to the psychology, people love things which are scarce, things which are hard to attain and have rare sources.

Therefore, if you're being available to her all the time, you'll be less valuable. This is the same in economic psychology, when there're too many supplies in the market, the demand will be lower which means the value will be lesser. Therefore, don't be very available to her all the time.

When something happens make you can't be around her, then let it be. You should save some times for yourself. If you're being very available all the time, you'll be predictable like mentioned above.

In short, being available all the time will lose your mysterious. Instead, be uncertain. Don't always plan to date with her. Instead, plan to hang out with your friends, go to the gym to workout, go for cycling, go for shopping, do your own stuff. You must have different plans occasionally. Don't always say yes for every her dating request.

Don't always change your plan for her if she asks you for going out. Instead, spare some times for yourself even if you have to refuse her request. Just don't always hang out with her, you have your own space, privacy and time. There're still many things worth to discover. Willing to walk away implies that you're a confident, not clingy, and non-neediness guy.

This will increase your mysterious. Don't tell her everything especially at the beginning stage, which you two only date a few times, both of you still don't know much about each other yet.

Don't tell her everything at this stage, even if several stages after. You want to save something to yourself, don't reveal to her everything about you. Left things for her to find about you. If you need to answer her question, answer her partially instead of the full picture. Don't tell her all the details, just straight to the point and tell the conclusion. It's even better if you answer her with humor.

Make her laugh and let the question fades behind. Remember, maintain the level of her understanding about you no matter what stage you are in. Let her feel like you have many things for her to discover.

When she and you are involving in a conversation, remember to change the topic regularly. Don't always stick to only a topic but chat for half an hour or even longer. For instance, you chat with her about the childhood, after 15 minutes, you change the topic to university lifestyle.

Ingrid responded to both men before heading off to work. That afternoon, Ingrid received another message from Ken. They chitchatted for ten minutes before Ingrid told Ken she had to get back to work.

Later that day, Ingrid received another message from Ken while she was in the shower. Ken told her how much he was looking forward to seeing her when she was back in town. On Wednesday morning, Ingrid received a good morning message from Ken and nothing from Phil. Ingrid had a quick conversation with Ken as she lay in bed, wondering briefly, for a moment, if she would ever hear from Phil again. Ken was a nice guy. He liked to share his day with her and seemed to be genuinely interested in what was going on in her life.

On Thursday morning, Ingrid woke up to the usual good morning message from Ken. They chatted for about twenty minutes before Ken invited her out for dinner on Saturday night. With no other plans, Ingrid said yes.

Ingrid wondered if she would ever hear from him again, maybe he was just being polite when he asked for her number. On Friday, Ingrid received a couple more messages from Ken, no surprise there. Ken told her again how much he was looking forward to seeing her on the weekend. Ken had already booked dinner for the two of them. She also knew that if she canceled on Ken they could easily reschedule to meet up another time later in the week. After thinking it over for a couple of minutes, Ingrid decided to cancel her date with Ken and meet Phil instead.

They provide solid advice that is worth taking, and they never make hasty decisions. They are excellent observers. They will easily understand what you are trying to say with the actions or words that you choose.

Even though you will be together with such a person, you can never be like the center of their lives. They are more passionate about the hobbies that they possess. They do not get angry very easily. They are very good at controlling their anger and keeping it to themselves.

Their views and ideas are never ordinary. You will be able to explore new points of view from every view they have presented. They are very cool and charismatic , but they do not make any specific actions in order to impress anyone. You will never be able to figure out the mysterious people completely due to which you will never get bored, and your love will never come to an end. Share this: Tweet. Like this: Like Loading Published by furyupdates. Published January 8, April 11, Previous Post 5 websites worth visiting on Dark Web.

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